So you want to write a book?

Do you want to write a book?

I did. So I am.

To be honest, it’s one of the scariest, emotional experiences I’ve ever had to embark on.

Not only does it require a lot of reflection, analysis, and vulnerability—it also invites your inner saboteur to get loud (after all, that voice primarily tries to keep you safe).

Here’s are three lessons I’ve learned if you’re interested in starting the process of writing a book:

1️⃣ Get a coach.

I invested in an amazing Book Proposal coach who not only guided me to the ingredients necessary to writing a solid proposal, but also was a source of valuable feedback and positive validation.

2️⃣ Attach the habit of writing to an existing habit.

When I first moved to Brooklyn, I could not figure out how to consistently write. Then, I remembered a great way to start a new habit is to attach it to an old one. So, I started writing every morning at my favorite coffee shop (which was already part of my routine).

A book proposal is roughly 70-90 pages, and the number of words required depends on the genre of book you’re looking to create (memoir, personal essay, etc.) Get clear on this early so you can set a goal for yourself then set your habits accordingly.

3️⃣ Don’t filter yourself.

It’s easy to edit yourself as your writing and imagine what future readers will feel. In reality, this is only going to water yourself down. Start unfiltered then refine later.

If you’re seriously considering pursuing writing a book, feel free to email me at [email protected] and I’m happy to share additional resources that were invaluable for me. You got this!